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Old 07-26-2011, 11:12 PM
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RP, I just want to thank you for all you do for your clients. My aunt was able to be independent and live on her own for many years because there were people like you willing to provide help and support when and where it was truly needed. Thank you!
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Old 07-27-2011, 01:41 AM
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Sounds like you and Leo are on a good path together!! I am happy that your happy
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Old 07-27-2011, 01:43 AM
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Had a date with Leo last night. It has left me feeling loved and appreciated and cherished.... I'm grateful for that being created in me because of him This is what makes it worth fighting for.
I'm glad it was a good date and that he makes you happy.
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Old 07-30-2011, 09:51 PM
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We spent hours working on our workshop last night. Lots came out of it that really was productive, even if we are doing a workshop. So it kind of seems to of gone from "mono/poly relationships" to really everyone is the same and we should drop the labels and view each other as having a whole set of boundaries that either work with us or don't. That was kind of the result of the night.... off I go, wish us luck

Maybe I will post what we talked on later.
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Old 07-30-2011, 10:40 PM
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Sounds great - are you giving it tonight? Break a leg!
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Old 08-01-2011, 05:41 PM
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Sounds great - are you giving it tonight? Break a leg!
thanks!

I have been busy... well, Mono and I have.

We decided to create a google site with calendars on it so that everyone everywhere can see what events are happening in our area. Here is the link to the site. I posted the link in the events section if anyone wants to see. Here is the link to the thread. Potentially anyone anywhere can add their own calendar from anywhere in the world if they want to... it could get quite large... FUN!
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Old 08-04-2011, 03:02 AM
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San Fran Bay Area, North West Washington, Vancouver, Victoria, Nanaimo and growing!! Great idea Lilo!!
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Old 08-06-2011, 02:05 AM
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I have so much to catch up on I can't even begin.... so I will leave it for a bit.

Here is the list in case I forget later:

burlesque
my co-worker reading Sex at Dawn
plans for the rest of the summer
thanking the goddess I listened to my gut and didn't do some stuff this summer
the house, the garden, the joy of just being at home
the dawn of organization
events abound
compassion fatigue
sex in the woods.... and other fuckery
realizing I am full, content, don't need anyone else, and have enough
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Old 08-06-2011, 06:32 PM
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I think my list says it all really... so I will leave it there.

Last night I was leaving with Mono to go and see an out side movie at a local park. He was standing with me at the door as PN was getting LB ready for bed and I was lost in my own world... I said "bye" loudly down the hall to PN and LB and in my stupor I kissed Mono and said "good-bye!" Then I turned to go and said "wait a minute! Wrong partner!"

Ya, I need a break. That was part of the "compassion fatigue" on the list there. The rest is really just about my whole life these days between moding on here, writing on here, the job that I do, hosting and being a part of my community and balancing the plates of my love life.... I'm happy, but fatigued right now.
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Old 08-06-2011, 09:24 PM
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Aww. Yes, it sounds like time to take a break, RP. Although I must admit, I've been eagerly looking forward to hearing about how your workshop went.
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