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I'm a woman and I vote yes |
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28 | 24.14% |
I'm a woman and I vote no |
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28 | 24.14% |
I'm a man and I voted yes |
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16 | 13.79% |
I'm a man and I vote no |
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25 | 21.55% |
I'm gender-variant and I vote yes |
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1 | 0.86% |
I'm gender-variant and I vote no |
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1 | 0.86% |
Magical brownies |
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17 | 14.66% |
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I've been taking an informal poll of this irl and would like your thoughts. Please post why you voted yes or no.
Thanks!
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Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley Mags (poly, F, 62) Pixi (poly, F, 40) my partner since January 2009 Kahlo (poly-curious, M, 45) my bf since August 2017 Master, (mono, M, 36), Pixi's Dom/bf since April 2013 |
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I could easily argue for either position..
Yes, it is sex... physically, touching & pleasuring one's self. Without it, life is less pleasant. No, it isn't sex.. without a partner, I lose the feedback and challenges and differences, and excitement. There's no communication, no relationship, no interaction. I've heard discussions in Conservative Christian Women's groups about whether masturbation is cheating. (I'll assume that discussion won't happen here. ![]() I remember a "shocking" women's magazine article that "revealed" that married men pleasured themselves. (Redbook? Ladies Home Journal?) |
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no...not for me...its relief...like peeing.
Putting my finger in my mouth isn't giving myself oral... It probably can be...but it isn't for me. Sex includes another body in my world ![]() |
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I couldn't say it any better than that.
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Alli Sex between a man and a woman can be absolutely wonderful - provided you get between the right man and the right woman. ~Woody Allen |
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Sexually stimulating oneself in my book is still sex, whether it is done for the pleasure or just for the release. The basic end result is still the same, orgasm.
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Life is about the journey and not the destination,
so what better way to know life than to wander all the roads and paths set before you. |
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Does cumming relate to orgasm to you everytime?...(honest question, not being sarcastic)
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I answered magical brownies. The reason: I am waking up to a reality for myself where everything is sex. Everything. This is an insight that is deeply spiritual for me and may or may not last. It does not seem a particularly manageable way to live my life. haha.
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Heh. I look forward to many more opinions/votes. I won't share the results of my irl poll yet, or my own opinion, as I don't want to influence anyone.
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Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley Mags (poly, F, 62) Pixi (poly, F, 40) my partner since January 2009 Kahlo (poly-curious, M, 45) my bf since August 2017 Master, (mono, M, 36), Pixi's Dom/bf since April 2013 |
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Life is about the journey and not the destination,
so what better way to know life than to wander all the roads and paths set before you. |
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I voted no because of my own personal experiences. I am not meaning to get deep or creepy here. I was abused as a kid and so if masterbation is sex then I had sex since I was around two or three. So I voted no because thats just wrong. I would never say that I had sex that early willingly. As for now... sex on first thought doesnt go into my thoughts as done alone. Although when you say masterbation it seems to me most people go to being alone. This is just my own thoughts about what i've learned from others and myself
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