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Old 06-26-2010, 09:41 PM
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Just want to say how powerful reading this whole thread has been for me. Thanks Matilda for sharing so much of such a difficult process with this forum. It's amazing to read through the thread from the very beginning to your last post. Such painful transformation! May you be liberated and loved.

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Old 06-27-2010, 02:45 PM
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Thank you so much for sharing!! I think your story has moved so many people on this forum. I hope it helps to know that there are so many people supporting you and wishing the best for you!! I agree about finding a therapist. I was fortunate to find a good therapist and I saw her regularly for a few years and then occassionally for many years after that.

Because of the fact that you are really needing to "find yourself", I would suggest that you find your own therapist and he finds one for himself. The individual therapists can assist you guys with your "couple" work.

Good Luck!!
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Old 07-08-2010, 11:38 PM
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Taking off my rings was like undoing manacles, they've come to signify the loss of my own identity so much. Things are difficult, but less tense. I feel hopeful where before I felt desperate. I don't know where I'm going, but I welcome the journey.
How are you doing Matilda?? I've been in my own "whirlwind" but I'm checking in because I've been thinking about you and wondering how you are....
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