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RP, I feel like in a lot of the ways WE are similar with how we work and I just want to give you a big huge internet ((HUG)). Mono too
Both of your posts are always so insightful and I relate very well to both aspects. I hope that eventually our dynamic can get close to what you have... but for now I'd be content with just having that acceptance.
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I find myself reading this post again. I'm looking for answers internally, but have already answered the same questions. I did it in black and white. What will be the measure of who I am based on what l've learned? Will it be doing as l have always said l would based on who l was? Or will l go back on my definitives and allow my self to change? And if so, what truly are my motives? Is it to obtain something I want or paint a pretty picture of the thoughts I've had? Is it a lame attempt to somehow make myself out to be more noble than I am? Or is it because maybe l have changed and have to own up to it?
So now I must figure out the cost of losing integrity at least one more time. Perhaps it is time for some more black and white admittance to myself about what I can offer the people in my life...on what level they are safe and what levels to avoid. The work continues.
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The work always continues for all of us, it's just a part of life. I hope you find your answers.
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Everything will be ok in the end. If it's not ok it's not the end.
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We are always changing, evolving, growing all the time. We're never going to be the same person we once were. That's what makes life such an adventure!
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