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Old 06-08-2013, 02:26 PM
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Thanks for your insight, yea we thought about what would happen if there was a stronger bond with one of us first before she would accept and love both of us the same.
She may never love both of you the same, is NYCindie's point. She may fall deeply in love with one of you and barely be able to stand the other. If the loved partner also loved her, would he be forced to give her up if she didnt love the other guy? Is this fair to the ones that love each other?

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It's not a problem for us as long as she understands that our love for each other is probably going to be stronger than the love either of us would have for her for a while.
Well, you don't know that. New relationship energy (NRE) can be, usually is, intoxicating and overwhelming and can overshadow established relationship intimacy for 6-18 months. Do a tag search here on triads and unicorns to see how things typically go when a lover is "added" and expected to love equally.

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We don't want to exclude her from anything and don't want to be excluded as well, but understand that bonds can grow asymmetrically and we are prepared to deal with that possibility.
Best wishes! You may not be as prepared as you think...
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Old 07-28-2013, 07:19 PM
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Hello Dale. I am a 29 y/o white female in Maryland; also atheist and interested in exploring the lifestyle. Feel free to e-mail me at lmc5784@gmail.com
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Old 09-14-2013, 05:34 AM
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Too bad you aren't in NC

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Old 12-30-2013, 10:58 PM
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to bad i don't live close and i am not young. i am really looking for something exactly like that
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Old 06-26-2014, 10:27 PM
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Hey I'm a 21 year old student with a fit and healthy body. I love literature, art and films. I'm very interested, give me a message.
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Old 06-26-2014, 10:30 PM
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here's my email md564@student.anglia.ac.uk
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Old 10-27-2014, 04:36 AM
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wish i was a little younger..
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Old 10-29-2014, 04:31 PM
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Hi everyone,

My name is Dale and my best-friend and I are looking for a woman that we can both get to know and fall in love with. We are straight, but we did fall in love with each other and have a sexual relationship. We don't consider ourselves gay and don't do any pentrative sex other than oral, which is why we'd like a woman that we can both love, live with and eventually have kids with. I'm a 29 y.o. Agnostic black man and he's a 21 y.o. Atheist white man and we'd be looking for a woman from early to mid 20's (race and religion not important).
We both like to travel ALOT and see different parts of the world. And we're both the outdoors adventurous type. I don't expect this to get me anywhere but I figured at least say I tried

Thanks and have a great day/night
She seems to be looking for you. I bet you didn't stop and ask for directions.

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Old 10-29-2014, 05:41 PM
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Default Looking for the two men scenario, but.....

I'm looking for the two men scenario, but I'm older and to far away. I'm in Oklahoma. Good luck in your search guys.
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