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Old 06-17-2010, 01:48 AM
Rocsolid Rocsolid is offline
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Question Hello there

I am 35 years old. My wife and I have been together since the 8th grade (20yrs ago).I grew up in a home that for a short time was poly. My mother was Bi (now lesbian) and father believes in polygamy (nolonger practicing). It ended very badly dividing my sisters from my brother and I for 11years from the age of 5 (now we are close).

My wife and I have been "Swingers" for 10yrs she is Bi and has had a few girlfriends over the years.Usualy I get to play some and we often get with couples for fun. We have been in 2 poly relationships #1 was 4 months of bliss with her best friend (and first girl/girl love).#2 was a bit longer but she was lesbian and tried to take her away (jokes on her ie...Rocsolid).

This is my first ever post anywhere.... in the www. I have a lot of things I intend on asking you all.Also I think my experiences my be able to help some one.

To wrap this up my first question to get this rolling. I keep thinking of our poly relationship #1 which my wife still regretts putting a stop to (8yrs now).I would like to capture that again need a starting point. Ideas about methods is what I'm fishing for.

PS. The first girl was a Unicorn she loved us both equaly and still does (but out of reach or we'd take her back instantly). we understand this is rare and we're only going for "close"
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Old 06-17-2010, 02:50 AM
AutumnalTone AutumnalTone is offline
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Kansas City Metro
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Welcome aboard.
When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.

While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.
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Old 06-18-2010, 02:56 AM
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SourGirl SourGirl is offline
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Welcome to the board !

That is a very interesting history you have. I am not sure if we have any other active member on the board, who is a 2nd generation poly person.

Hope you join into the conversations in the forum !
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Old 06-18-2010, 03:07 AM
Ariakas Ariakas is offline
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Welcome to the forum ...
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