Hi! =)

[Sugar]

Hey, everyone. My husband and I have been pondering taking our relationship to a new level. Lots of talking has happened, but little in the way of taking steps. Hoping we can find answers, like-minded people, and support here.

[Pookie]

Hello my love! I'm sure somewhere out there is the information, and more importantly, the person or people we've been looking for!

[Sugar]

Hope so, Sweetheart.

[Arinbjorn]

Welcome to the forums

Where y'all located at?

I'm sure the folks around here will be able to help you. Lots of good information here.

[Pookie]

We live in the Texas panhandle. Not exactly a bastion of free thinking! But we're open to expanding our love and our relationship!

[threesnocrowd]

What's your story sugar? What are you looking for?

[Stevenjaguar]

Hi, Sugar.
Remember the -amory part. It's about love and welcoming another person into your marriage, not about fucking around.

[Sugar]

Steven, I'm not sure what in my post made you think I was wanting to just "fuck around"I hope that my husband and I can find another person to share our life and family with. I don't see how sharing marriage and family brought you to that conclusion.lol

[Stevenjaguar]

Originally Posted by Sugar

Steven, I'm not sure what in my post made you think I was wanting to just "fuck around"I hope that my husband and I can find another person to share our life and family with. I don't see how sharing marriage and family brought you to that conclusion.lol

I didn't jump to a conclusion, just a cautionary word. IME the love part comes first, then the inclusion into the relationship. Although there are times when a threesome develops into something more, I don't think it happens often. (no, I'm not suggesting that I think you're going to go out and have a threesome off the bat).

Good luck in your decision. I hope you can find someone you both love soon.

[Sugar]

Thanks. I hope we can find someone too. I think I have an idea in my head if how it will be, and I'm struggling with how to make that happen. Lol honestly the sex would be a bonus...I really just want someone to enhance our love and hopefully we can enhance theirs as well.