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Old 11-03-2012, 08:21 PM
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Thanks Kevin, much appreciated. I'm considering doing a blog thread to explain it all. As one can imagine, it's complicated. Plans are... Murky. We've run into each other not being on the same page even when we thought we were, and then dealing with the drama that ensued.
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Old 11-04-2012, 08:53 PM
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I hope you are able to work things out. As in so many things in polyamory, a lot seems to depend on communication. Perhaps it's still possible to talk through some things and negotiate?

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When you were a kid, did you experience playing a game with friends in which one friend keeps changing the rules over and over?
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Yes, I ended up kicking them in the shin. Not helpful in your situation, I know.

I'm sorry things are difficult. Does the person changing things tell you and the others involved why the changes? Do you have a sense of the reasons underneath? That is a place to start talking perhaps.

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Meh. The violent stage already came and went. Working on the blog post. It's going to be a long one, though I hope to make sure it's unbiased as possible and not too confusing.
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