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Old 10-12-2010, 06:05 PM
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Mo: Take a break and a breather and enjoy what you have at home. Things are finally going well for you, bask in it for a while. We'll still be here when you're ready to come back.

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Old 10-12-2010, 06:09 PM
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((Hugs))

I understand the need to step away for awhile when situations are setting you off (no matter the reason). I hope you come back when cooler heads have prevailed and things have calmed down. You will be missed.

Good Luck!
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Old 10-12-2010, 06:56 PM
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You have a right to take a break from all of this drama - but keep in mind that you have come on here with your own drama (which I 100% understood and sympathized with) and Karma has come on here being cruel and hurtful. Karma can dish it out, but he can't take it.
Really now? I can dish it out but I can't take it?

That's damn funny, coming from you.

Would you like to know how I handled my warning for calling you out on the the things I think you're doing?

I shrugged, chuckled, and said "Yep. There I go again, getting in trouble for shooting my mouth off." It's not like this is the first time I've ever rocked a boat by telling the truth. Some people just don't like hearing the truth. I'm kinda used to it by now.

And after that? I moved on. Because at that point in time, NK was doing her job. It's not like she unilaterally decided to give me said warning - that isn't something one moderator can do without the input from the others. They decided. She delivered message. I was entertained. End of story.

So yeah, I chuckled and moved on with my day. This assumption that I've suddenly pissed off at NK for that incident is baseless - I don't need to whine, cry, and find excuses to attack people when they piss me off. I just call them on their bullshit, and address my real issues with them. You should try it sometime, KT.
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Old 10-13-2010, 06:54 AM
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Karma has asked that I not walk away completely. Which I was consdering.

KT I have a reply to you specificaly, but am working on the wording, as everything I say lately gets taken out of context.

Otherwise, I'm in a somewhat better frame of mind. I have a tendancy to take others problems on. To carry their burden. I was so upset by the KT, MG, 2R blog circus, that I let it upset me and spill over into other things.

I was upset at NK taking what I said and completely taking it out of context to serve her purpose.

But it's done and over.


I felt I was being told I had no right to be angry because I had used Karma getting reprimanded as an example. I'm his wife, not his keeper. I used the example, to make the point, that all should be held to the same standard. If one gets into trouble for being disrespectful of a blog, then so should the next to do so.

But somehow, it became about me being angry that Karma was reprimanded.
And that he couldn't handle getting in trouble.

For one, I told him he'd get into trouble and he SHOULD have gotten into trouble.

For two, he's had a lot worse in his life than to be reprimanded for being disprespectful on a blog. I can guarentee, it isn't the end of his world. And wasn't even on his radar before it was assumed to be the only reason either of us had to be upset.

It is what is, and I simply will choose to not assosciate with those I feel are of a character I wouldn't be friends with in the real world. Simple solution that I was too angry to see.
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Old 10-17-2010, 08:04 AM
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Had a great day. And I think I actualy felt compersion. I was happy to see Karma and Cricket spending her birthday together. Watching them hug and kiss after she opened her presents, just made me happy. I was happy to be there and seemingly be welcomed by her family. It was peace inducing to have the ease of my husband being with both women he loves, and to be invited in to share her birthday with her.
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Old 10-18-2010, 12:31 AM
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For once I want to sit here and cry, but they are happy tears. I am so thankful for the path I've walked the last 5 months. I have grown so much,Karma and I have grown so much, Cricket and I have grown so much.

I cannot express the feeling of Joy and Peace I have tonight. I missed her so much while on Ohio and I couldn't get why. It was like missing Panda.

Cricket and I don't have what Panda and I have. That level of emotion confused me. But I think, it's because I finaly have seen her. And see who my husband loves. And that makes me want her to be a part of my family.

Being with her on her birthday made my heart sing. I loved the love there. I was so at peace, all of us around the fire, just being us. It was a beautiful night. And I realized as Karma kissed her and then me under the stars, that there was no pang of anything negative.

I've noticed that awhile ago.

But last night, I noticed that there was a pang, a pang of love. Not romantic love, but love for what we have built. Love for the ease of the three of us together.

Something I never thought we'd have.

We took pictures today at Faire, as Cricket got new garb and looked damn hot. And Karma got a new hat and also looked damn hot. And I was looking at them just now, and my heart filled and my eyes welled up a bit.

We're happy.

How long I have longed for that.
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Old 10-18-2010, 12:36 AM
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We took pictures today at Faire, as Cricket got new garb and looked damn hot. And Karma got a new hat and also looked damn hot.
Hey, Cricket and I weren't the only ones looking damn hot, babe

I'm really happy that the two of you are actually friends now. I love just sitting back and watching the two of you interact and just hang out. Even when you guys are cracking private jokes about milk at my expense

I love you both. And yes, we are happy.
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Old 10-18-2010, 12:39 AM
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Old 10-18-2010, 11:58 PM
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Uhhh what a day! Not even poly related. That area seems to be great.

Went to see a friend who is in the hospital. She has crohns and they removed her colon. She has points of awakened dreaming from the pain meds, that freaks her out which freaks out her husband. Karma doesn't do hospitals well. And it's hard to see such a strong woman take a turn for the worst.

But we seemed to have lifted her spirits. She was doing worlds better by the end of our visit. Met with her surgeon, Well the resident, but he was great, very informative and attentive to her husbands constant redundent questions.

So it was overall, a good visit. But it's hard, to hear her scream out in pain. To see her so not herself. I was able to help her sponge bath though, so at least she's feeling a little more normal.

Karma wasn't doing well by the time we left so I drove, in Baltimore.

And then our almost gone breaks, almost completely died. We made it home. But there was a lot of jerking, swerving and praying.

And now my back and neck are killing me.

When we got home, there was a note that the apartment maintenance will be by tomorrow to change the filters and check the smoke alarms.

We haven't unpacked from Ohio yet. Our apartment looks like a war zone, so guess what we're doing tonight?

If it isn't one thing it's another.

At least out happy little family, is still a happy little family.
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Old 10-19-2010, 12:57 AM
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[QUOTE=Mohegan;49434] Our apartment looks like a war zone, so guess what we're doing tonight?

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I declare war on the cats!!!!! The Geneva Convention states that they are responsible for the war reparations.... meaning that they can do my share of the cleaning
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