I know, we really should have talked more before it happened, but it just happened. Like you said, they are some messy boundaries that really should have been cleared up before hand.
I really wanted it to happen the normal way of dating someone, not just hop into bed with them. I don't know why it didn't. I guess it was that we had the opportunity since my bf gave us the go, i guess I had the now or never mentality. I think my friend was thinking it was more friends with benefits and I was thinking more into it that it was.
No matter what happens we will always be best friends and he feels the same way too. I just wish he had the same feelings that I have for him. :/