Secondary´s new love

[Anne]

Hi again,

after having introduced myself, I would like to ask your opinion on this topic:
- my boyfriend I´m with since two years has a girlfriend - in other words, my secondary has a primary (we used to say this "job" was vacant). Very good thing, I´m glad for him. He already explained our relationship to her. She said that seh think´s it´s okay, but it hurts her anyway.
What are your experiences with situations like this one? Suggestions?

Best wishes
Anne