Well, I am glad to have made someone's night! I think to be able to even consider this kind of relationship, you have to at the very least have an open mind. I am here to learn, to enhance my life and the life of my relationship and I know that this is not going to be easily obtainable. So I am ready for the soul searching, contemplation and lengthy discussions. Anything worth having in my life, I have had to strive for. And in my journey I have realized that the best advice is from those who have experienced it! I live my life in peace and want to continue to do so...why get mad at someone's opinion or experience. Even if my ideal situation does not come to pass, hopefully I will at least gain knowledge and some new friends! Namaste!