Asking for consent in open relationships

[AnnabelMore]

Ew, you turned away and he still kissed you? That's not just not asking, that's also ignoring very clear body language. Fail.

[NovemberRain]

Originally Posted by AnnabelMore

Ew, you turned away and he still kissed you? That's not just not asking, that's also ignoring very clear body language. Fail.

I know, right? I think I hallucinated all that, because all I know about kink community is from reading. And in the reading, there's always lovely communication.

[Mudita]

Originally Posted by NovemberRain

ALL I COULD THINK ABOUT WAS THIS THREAD.
lol

That's priceless NovemberRain. Totally cracked me up.
Have an image of you in the carpark not sure whether you're more freaked out about what just happened or that all you can think about is this thread.

[JaneQSmythe]

On the few occasions where someone asked me if they could kiss me the answer was "no". I was confused that they had even gotten to the point of asking since, in my mind, I had been consciously sending "I'm not that into you" vibes.

[feelyunicorn]

Originally Posted by NovemberRain

ALL I COULD THINK ABOUT WAS THIS THREAD.
lol

For what it`s worth, I`m glad this thread was useful at least in ruining someone`s date (from the guy`s perspective).

[ksandra]

It's always good to hear we're having an impact

On the one hand, if someone is unsure enough that they ask then that's probably better than them just going for it. But if both parties are interested then perhaps that's when physical communication is as effective as verbal communication.