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Old 04-15-2010, 04:08 AM
NCpinupgirl NCpinupgirl is offline
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Hi all!

I'm new to this whole thing and have never had a poly relationship before. I have a male SO and want to have a relationship with a female. I find it incredibly hard to find women interested in being with someone who already has a significant other. A lot of people just don't seem to get it or frown on it. Most women I talk to mistakenly think I'm looking for a threesome partner or a one night stand.

My SO is incredibly open minded and has more experience with poly than I do. I think this is something I've wanted for a long time, but growing up in the bible belt has always led me to be really shy and repressed about my attraction to women. I've also had a string of really jealous exes as well, but I feel my current SO is really helping me come into my own and express myself. Anyway, that's my story and I'm sticking to it!
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Old 04-15-2010, 04:36 AM
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Welcome to the forum.
“People who say it cannot be done should not interrupt those who are doing it.” - Chinese Proverb

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Old 04-15-2010, 10:30 PM
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It sounds as if your SO is a wonderful man and loves you for you... with his support, I hope you find the right woman for you! I am in the same "boat" as you... searching for female companionship even though I have male companionship.
Sex between a man and a woman can be absolutely wonderful - provided you get between the right man and the right woman. ~Woody Allen
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