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Old 06-19-2012, 08:00 AM
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'Ello all. I'm Caroline. I'm currently involved with two amazing men. My first darling is my husband of four years and my second darling is my submissive. We are working towards a triad dynamic. That seems to the collective goal. I've been out of the closet so to speak since I was 21. I've always thought that society had it wrong when it came to their explanation of love, marriage and sex. I've never believed in monogamy but I've never believed in cheating.
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Old 06-19-2012, 01:39 PM
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Welcome to the forum!
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Old 06-19-2012, 09:04 PM
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Hi Caroline,
Welcome to our forum.

Polyamory is a wonderful way for so many people to go, and only a few of those realize it's an option. It's great that you've had the right idea about it already for some time.

By the way, would it be prying if I asked, Scottsdale as in Scottsdale Arizona? Cool location, if so.

Glad to have you aboard with us.
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Old 06-20-2012, 04:13 PM
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@Kevin: Yes that would be Scottsdale Az.

I was an Anthropology major in college and came across many countries that practice polygyny and polygamy. I actually came out to my family using that section and lecture from that day. It hasn't helped my case until recently. Recently my dede began her transition. She's a MtF and has become active in PFLAG and LGBT communities where she's met a lot of people who share my similar views. The only person who still is on the fence about it is my mother. She believes that I'm looking to screw up my marriage, but what she doesn't understand is that it's actually has strengthen it.
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Well, I hope your mother will come around eventually. She'll probably see the strengthening of your marriage over time, and regardless, come to accept/respect these as your decisions for your own life.
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