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Old 08-15-2011, 10:45 PM
monty101 monty101 is offline
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Default Seeking poly friends in Monterey

Hello all,

I am new to poly ideas and practices, and am looking for friends and potential partners. I live in Monterey CA. I am a 38 year old, unpartnered white gay man (a biological male who loves men). Sexually, I'm a submissive butch bottom and like being playfully dominated by a butch top. I'm HIV- and practice safer sex. There are currently two men in my life who I get together with (separately) from time to time for sex, but I'm not dating anybody at the moment. Physically I fit the profile of what is often called a "cub": 5'9", 185 pounds, pretty muscular and in good shape, moderately furry all over with blue eyes and a full beard. I do identify with the bear thing to an extent, but I'm also turned off by its conformist impulses (500 men in one room with identical beards, muscles, tank tops, and tattoos? No thanks!). Culturally, I lean toward countercultural aesthetics (DIY culture, underground culture, punk rock), and politically I'm extremely left wing. For sex/relationships I'm interested only in men (age 30 to 50, any race/color), but for friendship I am open to all: singles/couples/triads/groups; gay/bi/straight; female/male/genderqueer/transgender. I'm mostly interested in community building, and discovering if there are other like-minded people in my area! Peace
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