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Old 04-09-2010, 04:02 AM
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LMAO!! I'm so sorry I'm laughing so hard!!!!
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LOL It's a PANDEMIC!!! This just in... women are not the emotional basket cases. It was a big undercover plot to hide the real culprits!

I'm okay really. I'm just having a "can a girl get a break" moment... I want to be there for my men, but I can't do that when I keep getting trampled by their issues. I've been through alot recently (which you can way more than relate to) and I need to build myself back up a little. He needs space to "figure something out" So I'm being very boy and knocking a few back and I will stroll into work with my shades on and tell myself TGIF all day long... hopefully. lol

Fucking awesome! I am so ready to knock a few back!

We need a "polyamory board get together" I tell you!

(maybe there should be two? One for the boys and one for the sane girls?) hehehehehehehehe
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don't pee!!!!
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That was the word I was looking for-pandemic.

It's a fucking pandemic! The world's water is drain-bamaging our men!


STOP DRINKING WATER!!!



I learned about those internet hugs from Ariakas. He has long, strong arms. Maca does too huh!?!
Good thing I'm poly!
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Hey I want to go to the girl meet up!!!! I need a girl friend !!!
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Fucking awesome! I am so ready to knock a few back!

We need a "polyamory board get together" I tell you!

(maybe there should be two? One for the boys and one for the sane girls?) hehehehehehehehe
Don't forget the playpen for the mono(s) LOL
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Hey I want to go to the girl meet up!!!! I need a girl friend !!!
ONLY if you can prove that you have not been drinking the contaminated water!!!!

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That was the word I was looking for-pandemic.

It's a fucking pandemic! The world's water is drain-bamaging our men!


STOP DRINKING WATER!!!



I learned about those internet hugs from Ariakas. He has long, strong arms. Maca does too huh!?!
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Hahaha, Oh my. Some good deep belly laughs are just what the doctor ordered!
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Old 04-09-2010, 04:19 AM
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Default stolen from Mono-he posted this elsewhere on the board....

But it sure as hell fits in this thread too! So I STOLE IT.
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I'm starting to reconsider the idea of the word "rules" or boundaries. I think I prefer the word "criteria".

Simply put, I have criteria to share myself in certain ways, other people also have criteria. If those criteria don't conflict than there is positivity and potential. If they do conflict than their is a logical outcome to the question of compatibility.

Rules imply restriction for sure. But those restrictions generally only bind one partner at a time I find, their often one sided.

In a truly monogamous relationship their is no rule that says you have to be sexually exclusive because it is the natural way for both who enter it. The couple is not being exclusive because they "have to" (unless one is actually not monogamous), they are being exclusive because that is how they show love and commitment and how they want to receive it. That is the criteria they have to share their lives in that way.

So if I stand up and say I have a rule I need my partner to follow, that is self serving and definitely takes a certain power away from their individuality. But if I express the criteria I need to share myself in a certain way than the power remains with my partner to decide if I meet their criteria to share in their life.
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