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Old 05-30-2012, 11:11 AM
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hi we are 44m and 39f in ny, something has been missing in our relationship and she recently brought up ideas to try, which has led us to this website
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Old 05-30-2012, 10:59 PM
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Welcome to the forum. I hope that you find what you seek. When you say "ny" do you mean New York City or somewhere else in the state?
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Old 05-31-2012, 09:27 AM
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we are in upstate ny, way up north. i know she would love to be in nyc and goes there on shopping trips but we are about 4-5 hrs away from there.
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Old 05-31-2012, 11:44 AM
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Not sure how far way up north you are, but there is a fairly decent group of poly people around Syracuse, Buffalo, Albany and Rochester and the Southern Tier of the state. There are fairly regular get-togethers by at least two groups in Rochester and Syracuse, if you have an interest in getting to know other poly folks and are within range.
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Old 06-01-2012, 07:17 AM
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Hello chrisjohn,
Welcome to our forum.

Hopefully you'll have a chance to get together sometimes with a local poly group "live;" and you should be able to find many resources on this site to help you figure out all these polyamory mysteries.

Glad to have you aboard.
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Old 06-01-2012, 11:40 AM
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well thanks, we must admit we really dont know much about this lifestyle. a friend we chat with said to join this website as he said he thought this was a fitting thing for us to get into. is there more information about what this lifestyle is or how it works?
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Old 06-02-2012, 01:45 AM
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Some particularly good threads can be found here:
http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showt...6870#post16870

Also, a good off-site resource is:
http://www.morethantwo.com/

Especially:
http://www.morethantwo.com/polyamory.html

That last link is a good overall intro to this lifestyle and how it works. But all three of the above links should be helpful in providing some basic info for you.
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Old 06-02-2012, 08:05 AM
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thank you, this helps us a lot
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Old 06-02-2012, 09:22 AM
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Old 06-03-2012, 08:01 AM
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We live in Northern NJ and we too are interested in experiencing more, but don't want multiple partners. We would like more of a caring relationship.
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