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Old 05-19-2012, 12:57 AM
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Hey Y'all,

I lurked for a while and posted way back, now I'm back again.

Things have changed quite a bit since my last post.

I've realized I opened up my marriage for the wrong reasons, the hard way. Without launching a huge post, let's just say me realizing who I was as a queer poly person lead to a bunch of other realizations and now I'm going to file for divorce, and I broke up with our lover a while back. She just had a value system that was really different than mine and I wasn't willing to negotiate some terms. It's been a heartbreaking lesson. I'm sure my soon-to-be ex still sees her, and I actually am kind of happy for them in an odd way. They're good for each other.

I felt if I was in this boat, I couldn't come back here, I wouldn't be welcome, but realized that was just silly talk.

I'll continue to read and get all the information I can get so I can succeed as a single ethical slut.
"I know what I am, I know what you think I am, but I refuse to be that simple." - Nomy Lamm
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Old 05-19-2012, 03:52 AM
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NovemberRain NovemberRain is offline
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Welcome back, I was wondering what happened to you. Sorry it's difficult, glad it's finding a deeper you.
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein

Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who now lives in a house far away-with stairs I can't climb)
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