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Old 03-22-2012, 12:23 AM
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The first sentence of the OP stated that the man involved made contact first.
Wow... Totally missed that. Maybe I shouldn't read posts first thing in the morning and then NOT re-read them before responding again, huh?

In that case, I totally would have spoken my mind, but wouldn't have been surprised/offended by a negative reply in response to my response.
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Old 03-22-2012, 12:19 PM
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Wow... Totally missed that. Maybe I shouldn't read posts first thing in the morning and then NOT re-read them before responding again, huh?

In that case, I totally would have spoken my mind, but wouldn't have been surprised/offended by a negative reply in response to my response.
Certainly not really worth creating a whole new thread for, I wouldn't think.
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Old 03-22-2012, 06:31 PM
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Whenever a married cheater contacts me, I don't even respond. Not worth my time -- and what do I prove by telling him off?

Nothing at all, but I like to think that if every woman these guys contacted told them they were lying scum and to f--k off, at least some of them would stop polluting the online dating world with their vile selves.

Probably a pipe dream. Sigh.
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Old 03-23-2012, 01:33 AM
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I ask the married men who contact me if their wife knows. I've been rather amazed at how many will admit that they are looking to cheat. I then tell them I don't help others cheat. I have no expectations that this will change them. I have noted a tendency in the mainstream to accept, to understand cheating way more than open or poly relationships. So I hope that by being openly ethically non-monogamous, it will help change that tendency to really value openness and honesty.
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Old 03-23-2012, 11:28 PM
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I tell people cheating a thing or two every time it comes up
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