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Old 03-18-2012, 04:31 PM
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Make him choose you or her and put an end to this.
Or stop being involved with him sexually unless and until he is honest with his gf and she agrees to open their relationship. He doesn't need to be involved with you romantically to act like a father to your child, nor do you need to live your life according only to what he wants you to do.
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Old 03-19-2012, 02:24 AM
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I know and I'm aware that our situation isn't right. Iv told him to talk to her about it. He just doesn't want to lose her or me and he got a shock to his system when I started talking to someone else. I have emotional needs that I need filled. So he started doing so in order to keep me... But now he is risking losing her and I'm just lost cause I'm open to sharing if he could just open up to her.
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Old 03-19-2012, 03:02 AM
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...he got a shock to his system when I started talking to someone else. I have emotional needs that I need filled.
What do you mean? He doesn't let you even talk to other guys???
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Old 03-19-2012, 03:12 AM
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What do you mean? He doesn't let you even talk to other guys???
I think she meant she was talking to someone else as more than friends. That's how I read it.
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Old 03-19-2012, 04:32 AM
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Yes I was connecting with someone and told him. He did not like this fact and said that he doesn't want me to be with anyone else but him.
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