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Old 03-03-2012, 06:10 PM
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LadyKane LadyKane is offline
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Default After months of lurking....

Hello everyone!

My name is LadyKane, and while I've been lurking for the better part of 4 months or so I'm only now posting an introduction because I wanted to get some of my own stuff regarding my emotions figured out first. It's been a long ride coming to the conclusion that I am indeed polyamorous (at least in theory. No practice yet, but I've got hope with hard work and lots of communication it will work out.) Neither of us have any potential partners "waiting in the wings" so for now it is (mostly) theory.

So the players in the game, currently:
Me: LadyKane, 25 pansexual female, open to polyamory since the ripe old age of 19, but slow to act for millions of reasons.
My husband: XIV, 25 bisexual male, open to polyamory since as long as I've known him, but never explored (previously) because of the belief that monogamy was the only "relationship option"
Our son: Doodlebug - 6months old and cute as a button.

I'll be posting in the blog area a little bit of backstory regarding my own journey with discovering polyamory, and the situations that have arose around it recently... as well as future developments.

I just wanted to post here and say hi, as well as thanks to all of the forum members who have posted their own stories and experiences. Your information has been supremely helpful in some of my own processing.

So.... hi. =)
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Old 03-04-2012, 02:35 PM
Moonglow Moonglow is offline
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Old 03-05-2012, 06:41 AM
KyleKat KyleKat is offline
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Welcome! Hope you find the forum helpful in your journey.
"Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is the regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable." - Sydney Smith

Kyle: 27 year old male
Katie (rymmare): 25 year old female
Kids: girl: 5 years old, boy: 3 years old
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Old 03-05-2012, 09:09 AM
urmila urmila is offline
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hi LadyKane
welcome home. As I see becoming a member here is ur first step towards ur journey into polyamory. As for as the new partners r concerned, in ur subconcious mind there might already be somebody, which might come out. If not, falling in love is a natural process which will occur automatically when u come across the person without any conscious effort from ur side.
so good luck and happy times
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Old 03-05-2012, 10:23 PM
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balance2134 balance2134 is offline
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Hi, I'm new as well. I hope both of our journeys are fulfilling!
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Old 03-08-2012, 12:04 AM
StreetRacer StreetRacer is offline
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Hi! I'm new as well
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Old 03-10-2012, 09:29 PM
Truebrooke Truebrooke is offline
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isn't it just nice to know there are others exploring busting the preconceived "monogamy is the only right way" thing? !
Me: 24yrd old woman. Lex: my current partner (new this year) . Adam: my lover for 2.5 yrs. I have yet to be with another woman.
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Old 03-11-2012, 03:09 AM
zephyrrine zephyrrine is offline
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hi, its nice to meet someone so similar to how i feel..
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