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Old 02-02-2012, 07:22 AM
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Whether you intend it that way or not, this comes off as a judgement. My point, though I'm aware you did not mention anyone by name, is that not everyone agrees with YOUR point of view that this is even something that necessarily needs improvement.

I'm pointing out reasons that an alternate viewpoint from your own could be just as valid. Yes, I responded because I had something to say based on my own life and experience. Isn't that the point of this forum??
All valid points. You're probably right, I was casting judgement on the dependence. I sometimes forget, just because I could never tolerate being with certain personality aspects, that doesn't mean there aren't people who specifically seek them out. Where would all the mother hens be without you guys?
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