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Old 01-25-2011, 08:56 AM
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i think it's super-grooovy when people read what has already been written on here instead of expecting everyone else to summarize and regurgitate things for them.
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Old 01-25-2011, 01:49 PM
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Well this story wasn't exactly the same as my situation, but I was interested in the topic & I think I learned some things through reading it.
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Old 01-25-2011, 02:22 PM
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Well this story wasn't exactly the same as my situation, but I was interested in the topic & I think I learned some things through reading it.

right on. that's what the forum is for.
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Old 01-25-2011, 11:17 PM
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i think it's super-grooovy when people read what has already been written on here instead of expecting everyone else to summarize and regurgitate things for them.
Yes, sometimes I go back purposely to the oldest pages here to see what nuggets I can find. I was just teasing Senga about it, 'cause there were a number of old threads she resurrected. I like doing that, too.
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Old 01-25-2011, 11:27 PM
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I was just teasing Senga about it, 'cause there were a number of old threads she resurrected. I like doing that, too.
It's my way of demonstrating that I can be positive sometimes. Recently I got an ass-whooping by some of the members of this forum for bitching at someone for not doing their "Homework" and I'd like to cite this time as an example of using the forum to its potential.

I also have avatars turned off and just realized that I have the Cthulhu one as mine. So maybe I come across as a bit eccentric.
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Old 01-25-2011, 11:30 PM
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So maybe I come across as a bit eccentric.
Maybe? We love you anyway
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Old 01-25-2011, 11:30 PM
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I also have avatars turned off and just realized that I have the Cthulhu one as mine. So maybe I come across as a bit eccentric.
I have no idea what Cthulhu is, but I like your eccentricity!
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Old 01-25-2011, 11:31 PM
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I have no idea what Cthulhu is, but I like your eccentricity!
Cthulhu is like Satan, only better.
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Cthulhu is like Satan, only better.
and warmer...
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heinoushats.blogspot.com/2010/10/cthulhu-fhtagn.html"]http://heinoushats.blogspot.com/2010/10/cthulhu-fhtagn.html

sorry... I'm a knitting geek...

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Old 01-26-2011, 12:09 AM
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LOL at that picture!

I was wondering if there is anyone who would talk to me on the phone about a certain subject that is about our past poly experience, but is affecting our relationship (not in a particular good or bad way) but I don't think Ryan wants it posted in a forum. But I think a third persons view would be helpful. Or maybe I should just give a call to my local poly therapist...har har
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