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Old 08-23-2010, 05:43 PM
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Uh huh...innocent...not a noun I would use to describe you!
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Old 08-23-2010, 06:05 PM
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When we got back from camping we were all invited to Redpepper's parent's place for lunch. We had a nice meal and all chipped in to prepare it as a family. Before leaving I gave her Mum a hug and she gave me a little kiss on the cheek and said "Good bye Love". I'm sure it's a common British thing but regardless it was a reminder of just how far we have come.

Then Derby & kids, Redpepper, Ariakas, Pengrah and I went to a local Vegan restaurant for a nice supper and walk around our little city...can't think of a better way to end this weekend
Mono,

Who's vegan and there's not only a poly group there, but a vegan restaurant?

Christie, contemplating re-location ;-) And relax DW, if you read this, you know I hate moving!
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Old 08-23-2010, 06:39 PM
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Mono,

Who's vegan and there's not only a poly group there, but a vegan restaurant?

Christie, contemplating re-location ;-) And relax DW, if you read this, you know I hate moving!
Redpepper and PN are vegetarian, I'm omnivore but eat a lot of vegetarian food. We all like vegan food. It's actually really good and the deserts are yummmee!
We've got a pretty big poly community relative to our city size and there is a tonne of vegan/vegetarian interest so the there's a pretty healthy market catering to that.

Maybe just visit?
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Old 08-23-2010, 07:46 PM
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You mean those keg sized bottles? I totally had beer bottle envy...size matters damn it
Are we back on the size thing, Mono? I'm sensing a theme!!
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Old 08-23-2010, 07:48 PM
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I'm so excited & so proud of myself! I met my partner less than 5 months ago, but it was like love at first sight. He's married and had several other lovers at the time. Really quickly, he told me he considered me a life partner, not just another lover. Even though he's the only one I'm with - that's only for right now. I'm open to having others & would LOVE to have my own primary.
But anyway -- he said something candidly last week -- a day or so later, when reliving that moment -- the light bulb of compersion went off! He was at a 4 day workshop out of town & I knew he'd connect with this one gal -- I just knew it -- finally - I realized - that didn't take anything away from what we have!!! So today, we're on the phone as he's driving back (7 hr drive) and he tells me they were intimate. It didn't bother me!!!!! He was a little shocked, I must add -- but I said I knew that would happen but i also know it doesn't change or take anything away from us. WOW!!!!!!!! I'm so proud of myself - I just had to share it with y'all!!!!

PS This is my first poly relationship!!!!!

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Old 08-23-2010, 08:01 PM
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Are we back on the size thing, Mono? I'm sensing a theme!!
I'ma bit sensitive about the size of my bottles Derby had a really big one!
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Old 08-23-2010, 08:25 PM
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I'ma bit sensitive about the size of my bottles Derby had a really big one!
You do know the more you focus on how big mine is the smaller yours will seem
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Old 08-23-2010, 08:44 PM
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You do know the more you focus on how big mine is the smaller yours will seem
Your logic is without fail...such a smarty pants....errr smarty skirt...err smarty dress (I'm trying to be politically correct)
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Old 08-23-2010, 11:00 PM
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I'm so excited & so proud of myself! I met my partner less than 5 months ago, but it was like love at first sight. He's married and had several other lovers at the time. Really quickly, he told me he considered me a life partner, not just another lover. Even though he's the only one I'm with - that's only for right now. I'm open to having others & would LOVE to have my own primary.
But anyway -- he said something candidly last week -- a day or so later, when reliving that moment -- the light bulb of compersion went off! He was at a 4 day workshop out of town & I knew he'd connect with this one gal -- I just knew it -- finally - I realized - that didn't take anything away from what we have!!! So today, we're on the phone as he's driving back (7 hr drive) and he tells me they were intimate. It didn't bother me!!!!! He was a little shocked, I must add -- but I said I knew that would happen but i also know it doesn't change or take anything away from us. WOW!!!!!!!! I'm so proud of myself - I just had to share it with y'all!!!!

PS This is my first poly relationship!!!!!
YAY! clap, clap, clap!

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Old 08-23-2010, 11:17 PM
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Two words for you.... *car* *charger*

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ya ya...you seem to forget I don't have a car. Doesn't make sense to own a car charger

I did look for one, but couldn't find it
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