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Old 07-20-2010, 04:42 AM
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Old 07-20-2010, 04:46 AM
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Old 07-21-2010, 01:38 AM
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Maca decided to come down August 31st instead of mid October.
Is it REALLY bad if I'm depressed, gloomy, heartbroken and thrilled all at once?
I'm still dealing with the emotions of the situation with GG.
But knowing that Maca's flying home with me when I return from my surgery is so damn thrilling it's not funny.

I was really NOT looking forward to flying up for the surgery and then flying back on my own. Not to mention that I am really wearing thin on being alone with the kiddos.
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Old 07-21-2010, 05:25 AM
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Old 07-21-2010, 04:57 PM
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Maca decided to come down August 31st instead of mid October.
Is it REALLY bad if I'm depressed, gloomy, heartbroken and thrilled all at once? .
This is great news! You're allowed to experience multiple emotions simultaneously. Hopefully the positive ones will rise to the surface soon
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Old 07-23-2010, 07:08 AM
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We just had a great evening! The poly meeting had lots of new and interesting people as well as lots of the regulars We went for drinks afterwards and I have never felt so comfortable. I am really starting to feel apart of this community. I feel very secure in my beliefs and am learning to look at things much more objectively during our discussions. The result is just feeling natural. At one point I was laying on the grass in our small group while Derby and Redpepper were snuggled into each other as we talked to a new couple....I just felt present in the moment, sharing and trying to help. This forum has given me a lot of opportunities and prompting to figure myself out and I am thankful for that. I'm also thankful that Redpepper has supported me and encouraged me along the way. Everyone has taught me a lot about relationships on here and I thank all you too

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Old 07-23-2010, 03:16 PM
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You are definitely a much-loved and respected part of our community, Mono! Yes, wasn't that a great discussion night?
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Old 07-26-2010, 06:13 AM
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Thanks Geminigirl

We had a great weekend! Friday Redpepper's son spent the night with me for some "guy time" which gave her and Polynerdist a full night of them time

Saturday me and my little buddy started making a table for the new guinea pig cage they have. I get to show him a few things about building stuff and using tools and it gave me a chance to work with my hands again
In the afternooon we all hung out with Polynerdist's uncle, his wife and daughter. We sat ina park and watched 5 weddings over 4 hours and chatted about things. They are incredibly comfortable to be with and trust in what we are bulidlng. Too bad they live so far away

Saturday night Redpepper and I went to my old neighborhood to visit friends after a short stop at Derbylicious's house, and then spent the morning drinking coffee in bed and forumming LOL! Me and my little buddy continued working on our table while Polynerdist and Redpepper did their own thing. It just felt natural to be together, independent and doing our own thing.

Later Polynerdist went to a friend's birthday party and me and Redpepper hung out with her son and then watched a documentary before I left to go back to my place.

It was a great family filled weekend Next week...poly camp!
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Old 07-26-2010, 06:23 AM
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Spent the afternoon with Nerdist's native uncle from out of town on Saturday. He is a large mass of good times and has a way of being similar to ours. So relaxing and fun. We sat in a local park and watched 5 weddings! Drank beer and decided which dresses we liked the best. Nerdists aunt was there and their daughter. Kids played together and is adults conversed. They could see we are all fine and have a good thing going. It made us feel great to have them be at ease as they will pass it on to the rest of Nerdists family who have suddenly decided to be concerned, now that the old Nana has found out and is concerned. She is uncle's mum, he will put her right.
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Old 07-27-2010, 12:12 AM
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I'm not sure how many times you can tell some one you love them more and more before it loses it's impact on that person. I just had a coffee, chat and walk with Redpepper and she continues to amaze me with her presence, beauty and intellect. She is fascinating and sexy, fun and honest. I love every moment with her and we have reached a place that last year at this time I would have thought beyond our reach. She is the best friend and Love I could hope to have; trusted beyond belief and passionate without equal.

I love you Lilo....more and more. There I said it again
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