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Old 06-11-2010, 06:55 PM
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Mono sees me more like a horse that has a wide open pasture to roam. I'm a sagittarius. It fits me well.

I like the thought of a bird too and am so pleased you think the way you do derby. It makes me feel very loved. Thank you.
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Old 06-11-2010, 07:36 PM
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Mono sees me more like a horse .

A very sexy horse...yeeehaaawwww, bet I can stay on for 8 seconds
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Old 06-12-2010, 04:59 AM
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Good lord Mon!
You are TERRIBLE.

Maca says, "8 seconds? That's all?"

LMAO.
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Old 06-12-2010, 08:11 PM
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Good lord Mon!
You are TERRIBLE.

Maca says, "8 seconds? That's all?"

LMAO.
Actually 8 seconds is twice..with a 2 second break
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Well if all you need is a 2 second break at a time that might not be all that bad.
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Old 06-13-2010, 07:17 AM
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Well if all you need is a 2 second break at a time that might not be all that bad.
Cute....reallly cute
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Oh what a much needed night at the OH (other home). Mono and I got together right after work and spent the night leisurely going about the business of catching up on our connection.

There have been some crazy things going on lately in terms of relationship stuff in our lives as well as work business. We needed to come together and remember what the hell we are doing.

Sometimes everything seems to bog us down and it makes our relationship seem so fragile... so filled with doubt and doom... mono/poly relationships are a BIG deal in this way it seems. It's hard for us to catch up on emotions.. and remind ourselves that our differences do not mean that we can't be together.

We are constantly reminded of what we have chosen to put aside by being together, but when we are reminded of the love we share and how important it is to us there is no doubt that it is all worth it
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Sometimes everything seems to bog us down and it makes our relationship seem so fragile... so filled with doubt and doom... mono/poly relationships are a BIG deal in this way it seems. It's hard for us to catch up on emotions.. and remind ourselves that our differences do not mean that we can't be together.
It can seem so fragile and scary at times. Part of this is that we chose to invest in all aspects of our lives. Every relationship affects us both. We make ourselves vulnerable by wanting to support each other at all times. But this vulnerability deepens our trust and connection so it is worth it for me. I don't see any other way to achieve the level of depth that we both require.

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There is no doubt in my mind Lilo
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GG and I had a much needed morning. With his schedule change (to the same schedule as Maca) we've lost our morning alone time. That's made for a rough month of feeling diconnected as it is.
Then with all of the changes and what not regarding the Godson.
He took a vacation day yesterday and we spent the day together (with kids) and it was SO nice to be able to just BE together. Like getting a breath when you've been drowning.
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GG and I had a much needed morning. With his schedule change (to the same schedule as Maca) we've lost our morning alone time. That's made for a rough month of feeling diconnected as it is.
Then with all of the changes and what not regarding the Godson.
He took a vacation day yesterday and we spent the day together (with kids) and it was SO nice to be able to just BE together. Like getting a breath when you've been drowning.
Hi LR! Good to hear you got to spend some time with GG. I know how you feel. It can be really disheartening to not have alone time. And just when you think you can't take it anymore and need it most...there is that air filling your lungs. God bless! Pulling for you guys. When is the move?
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