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Old 06-07-2010, 12:50 PM
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Now that definitely deserves a "like" button.

Keep thinking you guys need to write your story down and get it published. The ups and downs, all of it. So inspirational! Why should we be the only lucky ones who get to vicariously share this part of your lives?
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Old 06-07-2010, 03:04 PM
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Not only that but there was a smile in my heart as nerdist (my husband) drove roly home, who sat in the front seat and gave her a kiss as she got out. I sat in the back with a passed out Mono, who's head was on my shoulder, holding my hand on one side and a jolly drunk Derby on the other side also holding my hand.

I went home to bed with my too lovely men and became a roasted redpepper as I was roastingly hot in the bed.... but was so in love and so... at home.

nothing but happiness.
I don't remember Mono being passed out, I remember him making noises (teasing me) in the back seat as I got out.
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Old 06-07-2010, 03:37 PM
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He was well on his way as you were getting out of the car.
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Old 06-07-2010, 03:57 PM
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I don't remember Mono being passed out, I remember him making noises (teasing me) in the back seat as I got out.
I was teasing you...who me? I wouldn't think of it
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Old 06-07-2010, 03:58 PM
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He was well on his way as you were getting out of the car.
I was just resting my eyes..they were sore form looking at your radiant beauty all night in that pink dress....MEEEOWWWW!!
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Old 06-09-2010, 06:30 AM
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I want to share how happy I am after talking with Nerdist on the phone about some things that had come up for me. It feels really safe to be honest and be accepted... and to hear honesty back.

Mostly, I am enjoying how good it can be to nurture the parts of us that do connect, knowing the parts that don't are nurtured by others in his life. It's liberating to share ourselves openly with the reassurance that we can work through or let go areas that don't mesh and we can explore areas that mesh wonderfully.

I feel a complete lack of expectations and this is fabulous for me!! This is definitely the way to love. Learning about your partner for who s/he actually is. Feels magical. Maybe I'm just still basking in NRE.
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I feel a complete lack of expectations and this is fabulous for me!! This is definitely the way to love. Learning about your partner for who s/he actually is. Feels magical. Maybe I'm just still basking in NRE.
I'm glad you are focusing on the positive side of things...that's what this thread is all about!!

On a different note....ahhhh, Loving Redpepper with everything I got and getting closer by the day
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Old 06-11-2010, 06:22 PM
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Its been a long couple of weeks of Mono being super busy at work and working late. I miss him so much.... I miss our afternoon "naps" I'm just not whole with out him around.

Tonight I am so excited to spend some much needed closeness time together. A whole evening of cuddling, talking and connecting... followed by an entwined sleep. mmmmmm, can't wait!

Tomorrow I go on a work retreat for a couple of days. I will feel well connected and rested even before I get there... I got some much needed time with all my loves this week and feel very loved and happy. The only one missing is my tersiary, who is struggling with his divorce proceedings at the moment. I have a date coming up with him in a couple of weeks. It's been too long! Well, three weeks, that's too long in my book anyway.
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Tomorrow I go on a work retreat for a couple of days. I will feel well connected and rested even before I get there... I got some much needed time with all my loves this week and feel very loved and happy. The only one missing is my tersiary, who is struggling with his divorce proceedings at the moment. I have a date coming up with him in a couple of weeks. It's been too long! Well, three weeks, that's too long in my book anyway.
Since we're sharing happiness, one of the things that makes me happy is knowing how you connect with others and how it fills your soul. You wouldn't be the same lovely person you are if you were tied down. I see you like a bird, they are far more beautiful in the open than they are kept in a cage.

Sorry for the hijack Mono.
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Sorry for the hijack Mono.
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