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Old 12-22-2009, 09:28 PM
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Thanks, sometime we'll try to take you up on it!!!
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Old 12-26-2009, 06:34 PM
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1st Christmas with my Chosen Family turned out to be amazing! Christmas eve was filled with friends and family and way too much food LOL! This was the first time I got see Redpepper's husband and his boyfriend together. It reminded me that he too gets something from all of our relationship.
Her son seemed to love being surrounded by people who care for him and I think he said it was his best Christmas ever.
Relaxed was the key word. Relaxed with a healthy dose of a love.
Next up...1st anniversary on the 7th Jan 2010!! What a wild year filled with new friends and family

Thanks Lilo. I love you
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Old 12-30-2009, 07:00 AM
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I love you too b-bay.

I didn't dump him today ....HAHAHAHA....oooo...
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Old 12-30-2009, 08:03 AM
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ok so to the rest of you this might sound silly, but for me it was important.
I'm in my 1st poly relationship. Right now it's a dyad, but we're both open to any, and all possibilities. So last night, i asked JustChristine if she would like to go to a Poly Happy Hour in our area in 2 weeks, and she agreed. No big deal right? But for some reason i was still very nervous about asking. It could be because i'm still not used to being in a poly relationship, so asking about these things is still "weird" to me, i don't know. This is going to be our 1st poly event, and while i'm nervous about it, i know she'll be there with me, and that makes me smiley
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Thumbs up. And have fun at your first poly event.
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Old 12-30-2009, 09:15 AM
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Thanks i plan on it! i'll definitely update everyone on how it goes.
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Old 12-30-2009, 12:18 PM
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ok so to the rest of you this might sound silly, but for me it was important.
I'm in my 1st poly relationship. Right now it's a dyad, but we're both open to any, and all possibilities. So last night, i asked JustChristine if she would like to go to a Poly Happy Hour in our area in 2 weeks, and she agreed. No big deal right? But for some reason i was still very nervous about asking. It could be because i'm still not used to being in a poly relationship, so asking about these things is still "weird" to me, i don't know. This is going to be our 1st poly event, and while i'm nervous about it, i know she'll be there with me, and that makes me smiley
That's awesome Jonny! Keep us posted.
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I didn't dump him today ....HAHAHAHA....oooo...
OK did I take this wrong or are you kinda like me..d'oh...Mine made it through yet another holiday season with me too..it's been wonderful.

Mono thank you for sharing your journey here in this thread! I continue to look forward to your and redpeppers muses.
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Old 12-30-2009, 04:17 PM
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Mono, it's so good to hear your story - I agree that we seem to focus on the problems and the drama and our differences. It's nice once in a while to step back and realise that a lot of us are in a very happy place with our respective poly, and that it's not all doom and gloom.

This will be the second New Years since C came into our lives and I don't think I have ever been happier with a poly relationship than I am now. I feel that we make a great team, supporting each other through life's challenges, and celebrating our accomplishments. I have other poly friends around me who are also enjoying their poly network.

To those that aren't feeling too happy right now, I hope that 2010 brings you at the very least a taste of contentment and a feeling that you are on the right path.
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Old 12-30-2009, 07:55 PM
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Go jonny! I'm so happy for you. I'm so glad to hear you sharing too. You have lots to offer my friend.

Its great to just live the life isn't it. Live and just be an example. Its hard to do that on a forum as its all talk really but in real life I feel like such a good example of what is spoken often on here.

Happy new years everyone. Here's to a good year!
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