Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

[MonoVCPHG]

Originally Posted by redpepper

Right now though my happiness is that I go to Mono's place and he treats me like a princess. I don't have to do anything! Its like being on holiday... I love it. I wouldn't get that if we lived together.

You'ld still be my princess .....But I do so like being your vacation spot....no one gets bored of a vacation!

[rosevett]

I keep telling everyone I am the most spoiled person I know

[MonoVCPHG]

Last night Redpepper and I got together with friends at a local pub. There were a couple of our “mono” friends and a couple of our “poly” friends as well as another guy from our community. We had a great time and it was nice to see how everyone just blended and we could relax. Our “mono” friends seem to have become normalized with respect to the general idea of different approaches to relationships. There is hope for all of us LOL! One bit at a time we seem to be dispelling the fears and doubt of those around us, which propels us forward in knowing we have achieved something that is good and healthy.

I love Redpepper more than ever and am more committed to her family than she realises…she is soo doomed

[redpepper]

The fact that my boy trusts Mono to be his family now is success and happiness for me. He confides in him and dearly loves him. Mono does things with him that we, his parents don't do, such as play swords for hours on end. I feel that my boy has been blessed as we all have to have Mono in our lives. I'm so thankful.

Mono is looking after our boy a lot this week and will stay over this weekend too. Poor man, he's barely been home all week. I really appreciate all he does for us and love doing things for him. I love the give and take.

[MonoVCPHG]

Originally Posted by redpepper

Mono is looking after our boy a lot this week and will stay over this weekend too. Poor man, he's barely been home all week. I really appreciate all he does for us and love doing things for him. I love the give and take.

Home is where I am, not my stuff. I'm more at home with you than you will ever know. I love helping you and your family every chance I get. I don't do anything I don't want to, I do it because I love you all and that is what this is about for me...it's about people coming together to love and take care of each other through life in all aspects of life.

Your boy is getting awfully good with that sword BTW!!

Night Gorgeous

[MonoVCPHG]

I just got home from a full night of very cool stuff. I hung out with Redpepper after work and then we all had supper after her hubby and son got home. He went to a course and Redpepper headed off to host the monthly poly meeting we attend. Her son and I hung out and did boy stuff with video games light sabers and wrestling. Her husband came home and we hung out for a bit before I headed off to meet Lilo and some of our Friends from the meetings as well as a new couple to the group. They were very friendly and it was nice to see new people joining in to share.
I then stole a few minutes, hugs and kisses with Redpepper before heading home. Very cool. I love hanging with my chosen family even though they think I sometimes do too much..they have no idea

Take care everyone
Love and peace
Mono

[MonoVCPHG]

Stepping back from the forums is allowing me to explore a new medium of learning. I had a great talk with Redpepper about everything leading up to my online break which goes back farther than most think. I am no artist but have taken up my version of drawing (lol) and am excited to share graphic visualizations of things I have explained to her. She has a Masters Degree in Art therapy and I look forward to her discussing meanings that perhaps I miss in my own drawings.

This is a period of journaling for me; bringing together what I have learned so far before diving into new depths of myself.
This is a positive time for both of us….we have learned a lot from the forums and will learn more inevitably. We are happy and connected…she makes sure of this by dragging communication out of me sometimes…but I’m pretty willing when I chose to be

Thanks Lilo. Your ever-listening ear and world of patience has saved me from travelling down dark paths time and time again. I used to get defensive when those around us would question the nature of our love; would look to find flaw in a depth of connection they chose not to believe. I no longer do. I understand that those who question or can’t understand it are not motivated by genuine malice. They simply have no frame of reference to understand it.

You are my Love, I am with my chosen family…ultimately being together as family is all that matters.

Peace and Love
Mono

[MonoVCPHG]

Woohoo!! Tomorrow it a weekend away with chosen family and great friends! You should have seen the mental power Lilo put into the sleeping arrangements. It's hard not to feel loved by some one who strives for so much balance with her men

[MonoVCPHG]

Oh yeah! Next month is our 1 year anniversary....holy crap I can't believe she put up with this mono vanilla cracker for so long!

[rosevett]

Awesome! !