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Old 06-13-2011, 04:31 AM
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Some things should be forgotten..
More whiskey will help with that lol
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Old 06-13-2011, 04:33 AM
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More whiskey will help with that lol
Not going to happen LOL! Time for a mindless movie
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Old 06-13-2011, 04:33 AM
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Good because the nurse will be off duty for the weekend...I am not checking for broken penises!
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Keep me away from the braidable tassles.. thats all I ask.
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Old 06-13-2011, 04:35 AM
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Ok there is a story there.

Keep me away from the braidable tassles.. thats all I ask.
Better start working on growing some hair there, Ari!
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Old 06-17-2011, 11:48 AM
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I've spent the whole week with my girlfriend, after not seeing each other for a month (except via skype). I'm on a holiday and spending time at her place. She is working, so we only have the evenings to spend together, but I'm totally loving this. I certainly enjoy intense time together in a bubble where nobody else exists. But I enjoy this even more: sharing the everyday life. Grocery shopping and cooking together, sharing thoughts and events from each day, waking up next to each other. Lovely. Some people may want dating and romance first, I want someone to share my life with, right away. We've talked about a lot of stuff, also of some fears both of us have. It's all been going so close to perfect for all four of us thus far; I guess it's hard to believe there wont be a bomb dropping at some point.

For me, a big thing this week has been talking with my husband on skype (I have time when gf is at work, and he's had time as well). It's not necessary; I've visited friends and usually had little contact with him during that time. But that's the excact difference in attitude I am taking, and it shows a concrete shift in my thought processes. I'm not just visiting somebody (and putting my everyday life on hold), but rather when I am here I am living here and this is my life, just as much as the time I spend with my husband is my life. And they are both a part of my life all the time, therefore I want to have some contact with each when I am with the other. You get it?

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Old 06-18-2011, 04:42 AM
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This evening I enjoyed some quality time with LB tonight as RP and PN went to see a movie. I love it when they get out for a date as opposed to doing laundry together LOL! I need to feel that there is balance in all our lives and that PN is being taken care of as his happiness is a springboard for my own. It is interesting how the full appreciation of my relationship with RP is so heavily dependant on the healthy relationship she has with PN. This is one of the keys to our sustained healthiness and happiness. Luckily things have fallen in place for her and Derby to get a date in this week and her and Leo are also in a better place. Things are pretty good in our little world
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Old 06-18-2011, 05:34 AM
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This evening I enjoyed some quality time with LB tonight as RP and PN went to see a movie. I love it when they get out for a date as opposed to doing laundry together LOL! I need to feel that there is balance in all our lives and that PN is being taken care of as his happiness is a springboard for my own. It is interesting how the full appreciation of my relationship with RP is so heavily dependant on the healthy relationship she has with PN. This is one of the keys to our sustained healthiness and happiness. Luckily things have fallen in place for her and Derby to get a date in this week and her and Leo are also in a better place. Things are pretty good in our little world
We saw them at the movie
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Old 06-18-2011, 06:06 AM
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We saw them at the movie
Small poly world hunh?
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Old 06-18-2011, 01:43 PM
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I think it might be more a case of small city syndrome, we only have one good theater here! But yes indeed it is a small poly world too.
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Old 06-19-2011, 10:58 PM
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Happiness is having our back doors wide open with music playing from artists RP and I saw yesterday so PN can hear it while helping LB fill up his new pool and then watching him wander in and out of my place as I wash my bike. The backyard is a very communal and very cool!
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