Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

[MonoVCPHG]

Originally Posted by Derbylicious

Thank you for the coffee and letting me stay in your space

You're always welcome

[Alleycat]

Finally hooked up with the girl she's been chasing for months.

I couldn't be happier for her. Girls hot, good kisser, very much into most of what we're into, incredibly pleasant to be around, and frankly someone I enjoy sharing a conversation with.

No requested for advice as seems to be the trend here, I'm just damned happy the wife finally got her claws into someone worthwhile she's wanted for ages.

[genebean]

searching through these posts I'm hardpressed to find a happy thread and I would definitely like to know your moments of polyamorous bliss. The lifestyle affirming moment/s that make it all worth the strife and struggle that comes with going against ingrained thoughts and ideals. And go!!!

[BrigidsDaughter]

http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=197 Check out this thread.

[Derbylicious]

People don't tend to post when things are going well. I assure you that there are plenty of moments of polyamourous bliss for many of us on the forum.

[urmila]

It is not just some moments of bliss, it is a conteneous blissfully happy and fullfilling life as for as I am considered. i am a pat of a quad relationship.
Yes there r moments of doubt that is when we come here to learn about how to deal with it and learn by going through others experiences

[BrigidsDaughter]

What makes it worth it for me is knowing down to my core, that no matter what life throws at us, I am loved and supported. Runic Wolf and Wendigo are always there for me, always loving me through it. Now we've added in Loveleigh and her family and I want to make sure that she feels the same way.

[AnnabelMore]

Lots of happy moments to be found in people's posts from the last couple of months in the blogs section -- mine, Rory's, Mya's, Phy's, Redpepper's, Nyc's -- go check 'em out.

For me, it all comes down to being able to love who I love without having to kick one person out of my heart to make room for another.

[NovemberRain]

It's not what I get out of it, it's what I have the opportunity to put it. One of my men is a serious introvert. It was very painful for me to try to love him in a mono way, because he just doesn't have the capacity to take/receive all that I have to give. The other one can take most of it, but in a mono way, I wasn't getting enough back to live on (so it's a little bit about what I get ~ can't live on nothing coming in, whether it's money or sex or food).

I saw redpepper once say 'I'm a relationship geek' and I think I am too.

[Windstar]

We've been having the time of our lives so far. Lots of happy happy joy joy here. It's 90% awesome and happy and 10% grrrr

We're a new relationship though. I don't know if we will make it past say one or two years because our life paths may separate. But I'd take a year of yumminess in a poly relationship even if I knew it would have to end and then we'd have to love from a distance.