Newbie help! - Page 2

dingedheart · #11 01-02-2012, 09:49 PM

wait, I know someone in Canada...do you much about fisting?

jeffnmeg · #12 01-02-2012, 09:51 PM

I know what it is... have I done it... no. lol

nycindie · #13 01-02-2012, 09:52 PM

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Originally Posted by jeffnmeg

I guess ive been putting the sexx part of it upfront a bit more because i dont want to make good friends with someone and think its going somewhere and have it turn out they never had sex on their mind. ... I also have a hard time finding new friends because im a mother of 2 so i dont have much time to make new ones

Well, it would seem that if you gain a new friend, and not a sexual partner, that would be a good thing, too, since you don't have many and it's hard for you to make friends. Don't be so focused on the goal of a playmate for the two of you.

It sounds like you have an easy time meeting potential girlfriends, and Jeff is waiting around for you to find them and then expecting them to be with him, too. Ugh. Why can't you each pursue a gf or friend for yourselves separately, and just remain open to the possibility of them maybe being involved with both of you? You can have a gf, and he can have one too. They don't have to be the same person. What's wrong with that?

Magdlyn · #14 01-02-2012, 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by dingedheart

wait, I know someone in Canada...do you much about fisting?

Ugh! What the hell, dinged?

Cindie, I bet there are reasons they want to "share" a woman. Number one fantasy for men is to have 2 women in bed. And if this is the OPs first foray into woman/woman contact, she might feel nervous and imagine she'd be less nervous with her male partner there.

But still, yeah, unicorn hunting is usually a futile pursuit for most.

dingedheart · #15 01-02-2012, 10:23 PM

Mags, I was thinking of a bi female who just so happens to live in Canada.

And some of us know that word to be like cat nip to that individual. Bottom line it was a joke

happy new year

jeffnmeg · #16 01-02-2012, 11:13 PM

ohh lol. and im ok with him having a girlfriend seperately from me but hes not ok with me having one seperate from him. He had to be talked into the idea of him having another girlfriend, he felt it would be cheating but now hes ok with it.

Derrall · #17 01-03-2012, 12:16 AM

With hiim originally being opposed to the idea, is it possible he's giving off bad vibes whenever you guys meet new people? My gf used to be that way, im not sure she realized she was being cold, but she was. It...is a possibility...

jeffnmeg · #18 01-03-2012, 01:11 AM

well i actually thought that might be it but ive paid close attention to him and over the past year he haas relaxed and is very cool and calm when we meet new women... I have learned that bars seem to be a bad place to meet women because ALL women in this area seem to be bi and interested in the both of us when they are drinking and around other guys but later on when sober and on a "date" with us they confess they are strait and not into a threesome.

redpepper · #19 01-03-2012, 07:27 AM

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Originally Posted by jeffnmeg

Yes it has to be a girl. my hubby is a straight man and im a bisexual woman so it only makes sense to have a woman join us.

I live with my two men and they get along nicely pleasing me when in a 3-way situation. Who says they have to be intimate! Can't they just be into you and help each other out!? Besides don't you know "the golden rule?"