Can a loner by polyamourous?

[lovefromgirl]

GS, I didn't know it wasn't there already! I don't even know where I heard it -- must've come up in a discussion between CdM and self. I love it, personally; perfect descriptor for being replete with love and happiness.

[Ceoli]

I've already got polysaturated in there

[CielDuMatin]

Originally Posted by Ceoli

I've already got polysaturated in there

And I think that was where I saw it.

[lovefromgirl]

Originally Posted by CielDuMatin

And I think that was where I saw it.

Thereby closing the loop on how I heard it, so -- Thanks, Ceoli!

[quila]

I something of a loner, and I identify as polyamorous by nature.

I'm a total homebody, and I much prefer a quiet evening with myself over a wild party or bar hopping. I also enjoy small social get togethers, but I find that even with my closest friends, I really have to psych myself up and get in the mood to go out, even though I always have a good time when I do.

I don't know if this is what you mean by being a loner. If you mean "someone who only ever wants to be completely alone" then I think that would preclude you from any kind of "amory," poly or mono. But humans are social creatures, and I don't believe any human could be completely healthy and happy without ANY social relations, so I'm going to assume this isn't your definition.

I have a hard time meeting people romantically, mostly because I don't make the effort, but also because I'm very shy around strangers.