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Old 01-05-2010, 04:40 AM
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Hey guys my names Rick. I'm new to the whole Poly lifestyle. I've always knew I wasn't a mono but for some reason fooled myself into believing I was. I got married 2 years ago to a wonderful and loving wife. We've had our ups and downs but what didn't kill us made us stronger. I finally told K that I loved her but needed to express myself and my feelings with others. She was accepting at first but as it came closer to the first time I was to be with another woman she started to hate the idea. Then she invited the woman over for a threesome. Well its gradually gotten better since then with a few slips back to the fighting about it. I recently found this and a couple of other websites and am glad I now know what to call it. I'm also glad there's a ton of resources for how to understand it better. It's also been good for K to read some of the stuff out there and better understand as well. K is a serial mono but i think she's open to the idea of having threesomes and being involved in my polyness.

I've had a few troubles (Which I'll post elsewhere) in the beginnings of this lifestyle. I just wanted to say Hi and let everyone know where my story of poly begins. Hope to be a part of your Community.
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Old 01-05-2010, 04:46 AM
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Welcome! Thanks for sharing your story

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Old 01-05-2010, 06:10 AM
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Welcome to the forums

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Old 01-05-2010, 08:48 AM
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If you need support and to bounce questions off of caring people, this is the place. I've found a lot of support here, and I hope you do too!

Don't try to tell me who you are; tell me who you love.

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Old 01-06-2010, 12:02 AM
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Old 01-06-2010, 11:17 AM
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Hi, Hoshi
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