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Old 12-20-2011, 05:52 PM
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Cool Just call me Rob now...no M or C anymore

Hello.
Been a long time since I've been here. My triad split back in early Summer.
I've been adjusting to single life since then and haven't been here. I apologize for that.
Going from two partners to zero overnight has been an adjustment, but I'm trying to move on. I'm now casually dating a few fellas here and there...though still technically fully single.

For those that don't remember me, I'm Rob...34 years old in Raleigh, NC. Even though I'm now single I still 100% poly in my mind.

I hope to visit more often now. Good to see you guys and gals again.
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Old 12-20-2011, 06:20 PM
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Rob,

I'm sorry that your triad dissolved. Hugs to you.
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Old 12-20-2011, 06:26 PM
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Thanks for the re-welcome!

Even though it ended I don't think it changed my mind about poly. I really do still feel the drive to love more than one still. Granted, this identity has probably turned off a few potential dates (guys still with that monogamy-at-all-costs mindset). But in the end, once I do find some nice poly guys, I'll be happier.

I've learned some interesting lessons...for one, a all-male triad should have no more than one "alpha" male. LOL Let's just say there was some major butting of heads among the other two, and that's a recipe for disaster.
I know another mmm triad locally, and I've been giving pointers whenever I can. I have better hopes for them.
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Old 12-20-2011, 07:07 PM
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I've learned some interesting lessons...for one, a all-male triad should have no more than one "alpha" male. LOL
More than one "Alpha" in any configuration will cause massive drama and butting of heads
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Old 12-20-2011, 09:58 PM
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How about a new username? I suggest 'Robalicious'.
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Old 12-20-2011, 10:34 PM
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How about a new username? I suggest 'Robalicious'.
Cute. Though probably would pick "Robert919" as that's my polymatchmaker and okcupid name.

Can you change your name without changing all the other account info? Or would you have to close it and start anew?
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