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Old 12-20-2010, 03:31 AM
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Is it the place in Seattle Ari? Center for sex positive communities I think it is called... or something like that.
No it was Ms Stacey's club in Calgary. Quite a nice location

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Our community has sex parties where everyone knows each other... coming over? maybe you should get to know people here There is a BDSM component I here too
I would like to do another trip there of course. I have heard good things about the community there. I have met...Sir dragonballZ guy. Can't remember his name and I coined that a while back so I could remember. He explained the scene over there and I had considered putting myself out there during my visit. Just never seems to be enough time That and most of my play is very private. I am discovering my openess is very personal. My intimates are the only ones to get that side of me
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Old 12-20-2010, 04:06 PM
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I could think of many devious things to do to Pengrah or Sourgirl in those rooms...
...keep dreaming.
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Old 12-20-2010, 04:36 PM
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I'm going to the Fetish Flea in RI in Feb. My first big BDSM event. It started as a marketplace, but the community takes over the hotel and there are play parties all over it for every kind of kink. Should be a real eye opener.
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Old 12-21-2010, 06:48 AM
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Hehehe, hugs are awesome! OOOOOOOOOOOO

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Old 12-21-2010, 06:32 PM
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Villians and Victims is the theme of next months event...Redpepper and I are thinking about how to play that out. Is she a victim getting back at the villian who wronged her? Am I a victim of her villainous ways? What to do, what to do
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I have a new-found personal interest in the following:

What about a sub teaching a potential dom to be you know, "dominant" the way the sub likes it?

Is this an oxymoron, or not?

Feedback, pls.
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Old 01-26-2011, 12:27 AM
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no ass-kicking from me.

I've had that on my mind for awhile.
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Old 01-26-2011, 12:28 AM
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no ass-kicking from me.

Well I guess that's one way of putting it, LOL!
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Old 01-26-2011, 12:45 AM
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I think in order for a sub/dom relationship to meet both people's needs there should be feedback/input from the sub. This enables the relationship to grow. Before engaging in a scene Redpepper asks me if there is anything in particular I want to do or work on. We debrief afterwards to share our thoughts.
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Old 01-26-2011, 12:49 AM
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I think in order for a sub/dom relationship to meet both people's needs there should be feedback/input from the sub. This enables the relationship to grow. Before engaging in a scene Redpepper asks me if there is anything in particular I want to do or work on. We debrief afterwards to share our thoughts.
Well thank you captain obvious. No, really! I appreciate that, and agree with it. My question was more of an abstract realization that there is more to a power-exchange than meets the eye, not a question about the best way to approach a "scene".

I have this friend, you see... never mind.
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