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Old 11-23-2011, 08:26 AM
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Default Aaron from Chicago. Polyme

Hey. I'm 29 male and just not really interested in a one on one relationship anymore. I don't think i've ever really been cut out for the traditional anything.

I want to have fun and be with a couple of nice girls doing it. Im not interested in trivial unnecessary emotions. Its not a sleeze thing. Its kinda hard to write down myself on a site but yeah. I'm not looking for a high-strung couple doing a make-believe anything. I just want two nice cool girls to hang with and even out any relationship importance.

Anyways, I'm a straight male from Chicago. I cant tell anyone by writing this down who I am or anything its kinda pointless. But I'm just interested in a relationship.

Um. So, there it is.
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Old 11-23-2011, 10:43 PM
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I want to have fun and be with a couple of nice girls doing it. Im not interested in trivial unnecessary emotions.
Sounds like you'd be happy just dating casually or that you're actually more interested in swinging than poly, if you're not wanting any "trivial" emotions involved. I mean, emotions are pretty hard to avoid when cultivating relationships, so it would seem recreational sex is more for you than polyamory is. Perhaps get to know some swingers who can get you in to some swinger events as a single (or "swingle"). I'm sure there are meetups for that in Chicago, which can introduce you to parties, clubs, and other swinger events there.
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