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Hey, everyone,
I've recently begun talking about Polyamory with my boyfriend of 6 years. I've only just learned about it recently on the Steve Pavlina blog. My boyfriend says he feels a little uncomfortable about it, but that he doesn't want to lose my heart and wants me to be happy. He had actually gone outside our relationship about 3 years ago, and it's been a struggle for me to forgive him for breaking the monogamy. But now I see the value in having multiple, loving relationships as opposed to confining, controlling, jealous exclusive ones. And I find that when other people enter the equation, our physical relationship takes off. I'm happy to have found this forum as we try to make a decision on venturing into this new life. *Barb* My homepage My first blog Last edited by Goldhart23; 05-08-2009 at 04:11 PM. |
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Welcome Barb, good to see another Granite Stater here!
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Thank you, Nikkiana! I'm in the seacoast area...where are you, if you don't mind me asking?
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I'm over in the Manchester area.
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Ohhhhh! You mean, "Manch-Vegas!!" LOL! Great city!
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Hello & Welcome.
![]() Just Me, Tim
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Round & round the circle goes. We seek the ones who will share in love. In our dreams the answers come. Round & round the circle goes. |
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Welcome to the boards, Barb.
I'll suggest picking up Tristan Taormino's bokk, Opening Up. I think you'll find a lot of information in there that will help you and your boyfriend to adjust. Larry |
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I love the graphics you're using!
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Thanks, Larry and Tim! I will check out the book you mentioned.
Barb |
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I'll second this suggestion, I just finished with the book... It was very informative!
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