a bit confused

[Alhena]

how do you bring up serious relationship talk in a very new relationship?

I want to talk about what is allowed and what isnt in our relationship....for example we are in an open relations ship obviously since my bf is married but should i just assume im allowed to see other people or bring it up with him first?

Im not currently interested in anyone else but its just info that i think i should know and we should both be aware of whats going on. So how can i bring it up?

am i thinking too much into this as in wanting to know these things?

Will it seem (to him) like i just wana go out and get a new bf?

[Quath]

I think you are thinking about this in the right way. Don't assume you oth have the same vision of your relationship and what is expected.

You can just ask him if he would feel jealous if you ever went out with someone else. If he asks, just tell him you are not looking, but you need to know how he would deal with it. It is a lot better to ask now instead of when you meet someone.