Hello from the northwest US.
Just joined the forum a few minutes ago. So glad to have found this site! I am in a very happy, stable marriage of 21 years. We grew into an open marriage about five years ago, but didn't obtain any new relationships until just recently. Since I am the jealous one my husband knew it would have to happen for me first for me to understand. I was not looking for anyone as I am perfectly happy in my marriage but it was nice knowing that I was free to go for it should the opportunity present itself. I think I am incapable of casual sex so I didn't do any searching of any kind. Then one day, there was a new coworker I met and worked with frequently and about 5 months later I realized I was quite literally in love with this man and so here we are. I love two and it feels completely natural and right, but it is not without its difficulties and I hope to have some good discussions with folks on the forum and hear others' input.