New to poly lifestyle. We have been in the swing lifestyle for about 4 years and have learned over that time that what we are truly looking for is a poly relationship. We learned this through our interaction with swing couples and the last couple we were with we were basically in a committed exclusive relationship with them for about 6 months. Then the wife of the other cople decided she wanted out of their marriage, leaving the other three of us where we are now. A lil confused about what it is and not knowing where to go. It's not really a swing relationship anymore and finding a single female to join me as my other love interest in the swing lifestyle has proven to be difficult at best and more likely not possible. This is what led us to the poly websites and after reading the info we've realized this was what we were looking for all along but didn't know where to look. Started in the swing lifestyle but were really looking for a poly relationship with another couple. So thats the readers digest version of how we got here. Hope to learn more about this from all the folks on here!!!!