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I understand that while many wives may deliberate or even abhor the very idea of a poly-amorous lifestyle in the beginning. But once into this lifestyle do they really like it or do it just to please their partners.
I was seeing a video where they said that once introduced it's the women who keep it going. Is this true? Alexi |
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I don't know where you're getting your ideas. I've read that it's more often the woman who suggests poly in a relationship. I've got to find those articles again and post the links!
Anyway, there's already a few discussions on this. It helps to do a search before posting. See: Poly Women Respond Open Discussion of "Poly Women Respond" Men vs. Women and "poly"
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. Independent solo polyamorist seeking lover-friends willing to invest in friendship, companionship, and love, but without a need for partnership. Never confuse commitment with exclusivity, love with ownership, nor sex with intimacy! For me, it is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring. Last edited by nycindie; 08-22-2011 at 03:34 AM. |
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Situations vary, but I would think that anyone that "does it for their partner" is just waiting around for the end... I would think there would eventually be a big "fail" hanging from the situation and a whole lot of mess to clean up.
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When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around. While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good. |
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We talked about it for months beforehand, we came to it together and in agreement, no one did it for the other. This was after 10 years together, and a year later we are both sucsessfully poly and stronger than ever together.
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All women don't feel one way or the other! Your mileage may vary, depending on which woman in particular.
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