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Old 07-24-2011, 05:32 PM
Sachita Sachita is offline
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Default Open-Minded Alpha Woman

I've experienced a lot of things in my 52 years on this planet. Many moons ago I lived with a man and two women in a bdsm relationship. We all just happen to stumble upon it and although I consider myself lesbian I do enjoy the company of submissive men. Back in those days I didn't understand what poly meant and was new to all lifestyle alternatives.

Fast forward... met some great people, dated a few people, some serious but short lived. I'm not sure monogamy works for me and spiritually I seem to evolving as well. At this point in my life I'm not sure what I'm looking for but I do sense a new and exciting adventure. Therefore I am listening to my heart, following the beat of my own drums and it lead me here ti investigate.

I am open-minded, spiritual and free spirited. I live on a hobby farm, a dream of mine and havent dated much the past few years. I try to avoid labels but I seem to be attracted to a more androgynous type. But nothing is etched in stone. One thing is for certain is that I prefer to be in control. It's just who I am.

I also have a friend of mine who recently told me she and her husband took a GF. I'd like to meet people and support her as best I can. I am most definitely open to poly relationships. I'm just not quiet sure exactly what it means for me.

Thank you
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Old 07-25-2011, 12:27 AM
AutumnalTone AutumnalTone is offline
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Welcome aboard.
When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.

While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.
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