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Old 11-16-2009, 02:26 AM
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Don't knock it till you tried it, Mono. It can add some nice variety.
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Old 11-16-2009, 03:09 AM
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Don't knock it till you tried it, Mono. It can add some nice variety.
HAHA!

I don't see how...I like to consume my partnerů..literally. Maybe an edible dental damn?

That would drive me insane..and not in the good way
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Old 11-16-2009, 03:25 AM
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There are flavored varieties. But who says you only have to use your mouth anyway? It's all about thinking outside of the box, so to speak
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Old 11-16-2009, 03:29 AM
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But who says you only have to use your mouth anyway?
Everything in my being LOL!!

But I get your point....ok...I might not really, but I surrender
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Mono just likes one flavour
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Mono just likes one flavour
Right you are Lilo!!

Variety is the spice of life for some....the only spice I want is Redpepper!!
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Old 11-16-2009, 12:49 PM
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I'm allergic to latex.
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Old 11-16-2009, 04:27 PM
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Well, ive only been practicing ployamory since January and havent been lucky enough to have gotten w a bio woman (cis-gendered, whatever, there isnt a good term), and so havent had to think about dams, but I'm with Mono, i would hate to eat a woman w latex in between. Well, I wouldnt *hate* it per se, but it wouldnt be ideal, that's for sure.

I use condoms for intercourse (vag and anal), but dont use a condom for oral. My primary and i are fluid bonded and dont use protection (and i am post menopausal and dont need to worry about birth control). I'd been mono for 34 yrs and she had been (in practice, not philosophy) for 5... and the last 2 yrs of her prev relationship, they'd stopped having sex. M is poly in practice tho and always used safer sex when she was practicing. She gets tested every 6 mos as part of her gender transitioning... Ive never been.

Maybe it's terrible to give oral w/o a condom on the penis, but from what I read, risks are low... i would watch out for herpes lesions of course.
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Old 11-16-2009, 04:39 PM
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Maybe it's terrible to give oral w/o a condom on the penis, but from what I read, risks are low... i would watch out for herpes lesions of course.
Nah, it's not terrible!

When I read my list it does seem really stringent, but I think I basically put it out that way to make sure that my potential partners are approaching sex with some sensibility. Like I said, I've only had to use dams for protection once since most of the time, all that stuff gets cleared up before we even get in bed together. I guess it's important for me to have partners who aren't freaked out about seriously thinking about their safe sex practices, so it's not so much about only going near people who are "clean". But I also recognize that as a young single woman without a long history of monogamy, I need to pay attention to things a bit more.
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Old 11-16-2009, 04:48 PM
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I highly recommend the author Susie Bright, in particular, "Susie Sexpert's Lesbian Sex World" for real-life suggestions on using latex and other sex props:

http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss?ur...expert&x=0&y=0
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