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Old 09-20-2011, 08:53 PM
Allstar Allstar is offline
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Keep it QUIET. I am in the navy and I am thinking about trying poly. I am in with a woman that is poly. She was in a triad. Of course they were in same command and got busted for something stupid. I am telling you now, they come down so quick on stupid shit like this. I have stood witness to many UCMJ for adultery. You can keep it quiet, but you have to be really discreet. Have you dates out of the area and away from any military establishments. This can go wrong and very quickly. Best of luck to you. Also as horrible as it sounds don't talk about your husband at work or vice versa. Try also not wearing wedding bands.
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Old 09-21-2011, 09:26 AM
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neegoola neegoola is offline
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Originally Posted by Allstar View Post
Keep it QUIET.
yes, sorry, you are right: everyone involved socially has to compromise with something. maybe it's for this concrete and personal reason that i got indignant.

thank you for the lesson.
"as long a i live, i vow to die and be reborn, die and be reborn, die and be reborn, over and over again, forever reinventing myself" r.brezsny
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Old 09-21-2011, 11:25 AM
Zenferno Zenferno is offline
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I wouldn't mix with other service members who are at the same installation, and never ever talk about your personal life at work to anyone. Everyone that knows is a potential point of failure.
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