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Old 06-11-2011, 12:00 AM
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Default Relationship issues/Sexual frustration

Here's a question for everyone.

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You have relationship issues (poly-dynamic).
You're not interested in a FB.
You're a very sexual creature, very high sex-drive.
You don't mind masturbating-but it doesn't alleviate the physical or mental sense of "NEEDING" sex.

How do you get your sexual needs met in a healthy way?

(not leaving S.O. who you are allienated from feeling like your FB, not getting a FB, continuing to work on your issues w/o letting the sex take up all of your time)
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Old 06-11-2011, 12:20 AM
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Gee i dunno, sugar-pie. Sounds like you're "screwed" and not in the way you'd want to be.
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Old 06-11-2011, 12:23 AM
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Not a me issue.
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Old 06-11-2011, 12:40 AM
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ok, well whoever, then.
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Old 06-11-2011, 05:11 AM
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Isn't part of the point of poly to be able to bring more people into your life to meet all needs In a safe loving way?

Maybe a new sexual partner needs to be courted. Not sure I understand enough to offer any ideas though.
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Old 06-11-2011, 12:40 PM
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Well - I suggest you/they GET interested in a FB !
Or several if necessary.

This is the typical catch 22. You want and need something but put all kinds of restrictions around it so it can never realistically be achieved.

Only humans do stupid shit like this lol

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Old 06-11-2011, 01:14 PM
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Only humans do stupid shit like this lol

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Srsly. And we must be the only species that thinks the world will implode if one of us doesn't get laid enough.

If you wanna fuck, just go fuck. Yeash.
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Old 06-11-2011, 07:37 PM
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Is this about Maca, or you? Because you've got GG right there... I don't understand why he's off limits, quite. He's a trusted friend and the bio father of one of your kids!
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Old 06-11-2011, 08:40 PM
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Sorry what's an Fb?
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Old 06-11-2011, 09:03 PM
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fuck buddy
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