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Old 10-07-2012, 09:49 PM
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You are always in my top 3 matches in the area and I always think it would be great to get to know you but chicken out before messaging. Today you are the top match and I am feeling brave or something: so Hi. You sound interesting n fun. care to chat some?
I can relate to chickening out and I found this endearing. I messaged him, we've been chatting on Skype. Not sure if anything will come of it, but he seems nice.
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Old 10-10-2012, 10:09 AM
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To the OKC question 'do you think women are obligated to shave their legs?'

I have answered: No.

Today I get this message (guy, profile says straight & married, almost no info in his profile, nothing about poly anyway) that consists of one line:

"So, you don't shave your legs?"
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Old 10-10-2012, 10:27 AM
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"So, you don't shave your legs?"
To which you are supposed to protest that you do indeed shave your legs and are dying to show him how hairlessly feminine you are because his opinion of you is just so important. It's a low-grade neg hit.
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Old 10-10-2012, 01:52 PM
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To the OKC question 'do you think women are oblogated to shave their legs?'

I have answered: No.

Today I get this message (guy, profile says straight & married, almost no info in his profile, nothing about poly anyway) that consists of one line:

"So, you don't shave your legs?"
I replied:
"I try to give a polite answer to any question I get asked. But in this case, I have to say: "this is none of your business"."

to which he replied:
"Oh dear, I guess you're right, it isn't my business! So I guess I shouldn't ask if you keep your legs nice and smooth?"

is he really stupid or a creep? can't decide... but he won't be getting any more replies
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Old 10-10-2012, 05:01 PM
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is he really stupid or a creep? can't decide... but he won't be getting any more replies
I would send one more message:

"Are you really stupid or just a creep? I can't decide." And then block him and put him in your Hidden Users list.
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Old 10-10-2012, 06:01 PM
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I would just block him and not give it a second thought. He probably signed up there just to troll like this and entertain himself with people explaining themselves.

I can't believe someone actually posted a question like "are women OBLIGATED to shave their legs". Since when is shaving an "obligation"? The question doesn't even make sense. If there is some country where women ARE required by law to shave their legs, then it's not even a matter of opinion whether they are "obligated".

Teh stuiped. It burns.
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Old 10-14-2012, 03:15 AM
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Received this just now

"I'm sorry, you are to hot, smart and interesting for this site. You could end your search for someone right now if you contact me.

Elliot"

Ha!
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Old 10-14-2012, 03:40 AM
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Received this just now

"I'm sorry, you are to hot, smart and interesting for this site. You could end your search for someone right now if you contact me.

Elliot"

Ha!


What are you waiting for?
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Old 10-14-2012, 12:56 PM
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The improper use of "to" instead of "too" bugs me. Lol. As for my most recent message "Are you looking for a sugar daddy?" He went on to say that he was clean and safe and gave his phone number.
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Old 10-14-2012, 01:39 PM
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To the OKC question 'do you think women are obligated to shave their legs?'

I have answered: No.

Today I get this message (guy, profile says straight & married, almost no info in his profile, nothing about poly anyway) that consists of one line:

"So, you don't shave your legs?"
Ha, I answered that leg shaving question: "No. If you answered yes to this question, do not contact me."
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