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Old 03-18-2015, 05:36 PM
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Default I totally just got caught crushing

I am with a bunch of friends at a Chineeses Buffet. I run four miles a day I can do this lol..

I woman came in with 5 school age children, I think it was her energy and maybe her jeans, or just her relaxed manor with all of them, or how she held her chop sticks.. Not really sure..

A friend who knows about my relationship with Renee (not everyone does or well I don't tell everyone. It seems like so people fill other people in and that's fine.) kicked me hard under the table and was like.

"Jill yes that a mother of 5, they know how to eat with chop sticks, too."

This place is not that crowded she might have hear her.. I don't know..

Does anyone ever do that or is it just me.. I'm not even sure if there is a question here.
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Old 03-18-2015, 06:04 PM
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I frequently check out attractive people but have never had a friend react that way. How did that make you feel?
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Old 03-18-2015, 06:19 PM
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She said she said my name twice before she tapped me, then she kicked my shin pretty good..

I guess at first I was like hey leave me alone I'm checking out an attractive woman.

Then when I thought she might of heard us I was more embarrassed. Not embarrassed I was looking at her, embarrassed I was called out on it. then I felt like a silly girl with a crush, who got called out on it.

Now I feel like I should have said hello to her as I passed her in line.. Silly right..
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Old 03-18-2015, 09:15 PM
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Damn! Attractive people. They're so darn ... attractive ...

Wait, what was the question?
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Old 03-18-2015, 10:27 PM
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So - someone saw you checking somebody out. Oka-a-a-a-y... ?
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Old 03-19-2015, 03:11 PM
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So - someone saw you checking somebody out. Oka-a-a-a-y... ?
I know just how how this post made me feel...
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Checking a hottie out = heavenly
Getting caught = so embarrassing
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Checking a hottie out = heavenly
Getting caught = so embarrassing
I thought your story was lovely we forget when we're older that feeling of being 'caught'. Kevin's description is perfect, lol
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Nah, don't be embarrassed.

On NYE I was walking around with some friends, two gay men and a straight woman, and I made them all stop for five minutes when I saw an attractive woman riding a mechanical bull and I wanted to watch her. They all grumbled a little and teased me a bit, none of them could care less about how graceful she was and how sweet and wild-looking in her summer dress with her hair flying around...but they all stayed put until I was darned ready to walk away
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