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Old 11-17-2013, 05:59 AM
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Lots going on. And lots of crap. It sucks to be me lately.

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Old 11-17-2013, 08:34 AM
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Lots going on. And lots of crap. It sucks to be me lately.

<sigh>
I'm sad to read this. I very much enjoy reading your posts - I love your spirit and your lust for life. I wish good things and lots of fun for you. IP x
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Old 11-17-2013, 08:38 AM
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While I'm here. I'm doing good just now. I'm starting to write a bit again (after a break because of dealing with grief this year), have taught myself to knit socks and have lots of interesting stuff going on in both my paid work and the voluntary stuff I do. (Paid work also has lots of annoyances but hoping it will settle soon).

Relationships with friends and with SO all going well too.

C is healthy and well and seems happy with his life.
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Old 11-18-2013, 02:01 AM
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Not sure how I should feel right now. Like a lot of people have a lot of day to day BS going on between bills and employment.

But I'm set up to go back to school starting in the spring semester. Going for my AAS in Automotive Technology, and thinking about getting a degree in business management while I am at it, or at least take some of the courses so when I get to open my own shop I know how to run the business side of it.
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Old 11-18-2013, 03:20 AM
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N met someone new, they are going on a date Monday, she's pretty cool. she joined our D&D group that a friend hosts. Im pretty excited for N to have met someone that he can connect to on a level that neither J or I provide.

I just registered for spring classes. Going to take 5 classes, 4 of which are mon and wed. the 5th class will be on saturday. we are gearing up for our week long trip to chicago and I have so much to do for school by next monday!
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Old 12-02-2013, 06:00 PM
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Thus week started off pretty craptastic.

Had to euthanize our 11 yo Scottish terrier. He had a massive stroke early this AM.

The tears come and go in waves.
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Old 12-19-2013, 01:00 AM
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Scared and worried right now. Wendigo hurt himself pretty badly at work today - got his hand caught in one of the machines. Runic Wolf helped keep him from going into shock and made sure that he found out where the EMT's were taking him so that we could let Pretty Lady know, but I had to call her since Runic Wolf didn't have the number, which meant I got to get a call at work that my boyfriend got his hand mangled in a machine. Thankfully there was some good news in that he didn't lost any fingers, had good circulation, and could feel and move his fingers when the EMT's arrived. Right now we could use all the prayers and healing thoughts people can muster. Not being his wife, there isn't a lot I can do, so I'm sitting here at home while Runic Wolf is out doing our Christmas Shopping.

On a personal note, I found out on Friday that I need to have my terminal ileum and part of my colon removed due to intensive scar tissue in my intestines. . . apparently I have Crohn's and didn't know it. My surgery is the end of next month, so Runic Wolf, Wendigo, and Runic Wolf's new girlfriend and I were supposed to be getting together to hang out this weekend since that will be the second operation I have scheduled next month. Merry Christmas to us.
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Old 12-19-2013, 04:38 AM
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Nothing dramatic like BrigidsDaughter...hope everyone heals up. wow.

Tonight, I am satisfied and happy.

I have to have a minor surgical procedure tomorrow (which I have had before...it's really not a big deal - some discomfort and a day off of work).

MrS will take me. Dude and Lotus have expressed their concern and support. I feel loved and cherished and "taken care of". Right now, I am feeling that everyone in our tangle just wants everyone else to be happy...and I am. Warm. Comfortable. Lovely.

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Old 12-19-2013, 11:15 PM
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Wendigo got home from the hospital around 11:30 last night and called me to let me know he was home. He has extensive tissue damage to the back of his hand, but all his fingers and bones are intact. He may have some tendon damage, but he doesn't think so. (Says the man doped up on pain killers who thought he could go to work on Friday). He's seeing a hand specialist next week.

Runic Wolf and I are feeling drained tonight and he's off in his office being anti social. I'm just glad that it wasn't as bad as it could have been, that Wendigo still has his job, and that the bosses are letting him file for Worker's Comp because it looks like the accident was his fault. Wendigo and Runic Wolf work for some awesome people who take good care of them.
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Old 12-23-2013, 11:06 PM
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Lots happening right now, I managed to fall and bang myself up pretty well, our GP didn't want to touch it, and sent me to a specialist, I'm not allowed to walk anymore then I have to, so I'm using a wheelchair for the next 12 weeks or so. I'm getting a real education into what Jo faces on a daily basis (she's in a power chair).
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